Do you want to attract younger women?
There is nothing wrong with wanting to date younger women. A woman a few years younger may be a lot more vibrant, fun and beautiful than girls of your own age. One of the good things about being a guy is that this is not horribly hard to pull off.
There is nothing socially unacceptable about a 45 year old guy dating a 30 year old woman. In fact having a slight or moderate difference in age with the man being older is pretty standard. The hard part may seem to be learning the few tricks that help to attract younger women.
THE most important step to getting a younger girl is sexual tension. No matter what, she MUST feel that tinge of excitement whenever you’re near.
I understand that attracting younger women can be very difficult. There are many women that are not even going to consider dating someone that is older than them but you still see older guys walking down the street with young girls on their arms all of the time. It is not uncommon to see guys that are dating women that are 5, 10 or even 20 years younger than them.
If you want what they have you should pay attention to how they got it. How does this man act and what type of girl is she?
It all starts with the younger woman you want to attract. You need to pay close attention to the type of girl that you are going after. If you want to have success you should go after someone that is more open minded and willing to try new things. You could find someone that is more artsy and creative and see if she is interested in dating you.
Show Her Your Strengths
The important thing is to play to your strengths and not to be embarrassed by them. If you are 40, a girl is not going to be fooled into thinking you are 25 just because you wear fashionable clothes. You are not 25 so don’t act that way. At the same time, you DO need to separate yourself from being a “boring old guy”. It is a delicate balance, but it is not too hard to overcome.
Think of the positives about being older. You have some responsibility. You have confidence. You have experience. You have a place in the world. You are not struggling to find a place in the world and come to grips with your own sexuality and emerging manhood. You have dealt with that shit a long time ago. Those are your strengths. All you need to do is show those things to the girl, while at the same time show her you are willing to try new things and have a great time.
A young girl will respect your experience and confidence, but she may not want to hang around the house complaining about how your hip hurts and how strange young kids are these days. You do not need to be “part” of her world, but you should be willing to “experience it”. Just mix adventure and fun with responsibility, confidence and experience and you have a recipe that many younger women love.
When it comes to attracting younger women, age isn’t everything. You may not have youth on your side but you do have other things on your side that will attract younger women. Hopefully you have achieved a lot in life. Play this the right way and you can be very interesting to her. Women will most likely be attracted to you because you are stable, mature and not afraid of commitment.
Many women are looking for these traits and if you can display them and show them that you are the right choice of some immature frat boy who still thinks that lighting his farts on fire is the height of humor. It isn’t about beating a guy that is 10-15 years younger at his game, it is about playing your own game and being yourself, or at least a more energetic and more fun version of yourself.
When you think about attracting younger women you should take a look at their social circle. If they are hanging out with all other young people and people that are younger than them you may want to go on to another girl. Many times these types of girls are going to think it’s not a good idea to date older men. Even if they break their “pack” and try you out, the peer pressure may get to them over time. You should check out women that have a diverse circle of friends because they usually are the ones that are more open minded to friendships and relationships. There does not really need to be other “older” guys in the mix, but it is important to look for women that are a bit more worldly than an empty-headed clucking hen.
Think Of James Bond Getting The Young Chicks
If you want to really get a girl that is younger than you it is important that you do not pounce on her and start making moves on her right away. I like to think of good old James Bond. He almost always dated girls that are 15 years or so younger (if you noticed). He attracts them with ”cool”. The offer and the innuendo is always implicit. He doesn’t go after the women like a freight train bound and determined to achieve success. Bond just puts the offer out there subtly and sees what happens. More often than not, good things happen, simply because… he is James Fucking Bond.
Now, of course that is the movies, and you live in reality. You are not going to simply ask for a Martini – shaken, not stirred, and have 20 something girls throw themselves at you. But take that level of cool into attempting to attract women. It is easy to trip the line from interesting, possible romantic interest, older guy to sketchy old pervert just by coming on too strong.
You should make sure that your meeting is natural and that she isn’t thinking that you are hitting on her. The fastest way to run a girl off is to be the creepy old guy. You want to come off as the interesting older man instead. I am sure you can see how those two differ.
Some Methods To Attract Younger Women
Some of the ways that you could meet would be bumping into each other and you would have to help her pick up whatever the both of you dropped on the floor. During the time of picking up the fallen debris you should make sure that you put something interesting in there. You could say “Oh! I am so sorry. I was in such a rush to get to my executive panel’s 5th annual award ceremony that I wasn’t even looking where I was going”. You will be surprised how many girls will take the bait. Even though they just heard that you are very busy and in a rush they are going to ask you about where you are headed because it just sounds so exciting.
If you take a little time out to tell her about it she is going to feel very special. You can then say “You can check out what I do by going to my website” as you hand her a business card and then you can say “My number is on there too if you need it”. That is cool. That is Bond. That is the way to spark the interest of a younger girl without seeming like an old creep. Remember confidence is the real key.
This is just one of the situations that might happen when attracting younger women. Create your own situations. Just remember Bond; confidence, experience and fun can often beat the pants off of the youth and beauty brigade if given a chance.
